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Mar 4·edited Apr 19Liked by Emma Parnell

Thank you for being so generous in sharing your experiences and disquiet. I have recently started on my own journey of getting into doing design talks, and I think I am at the point where the initial excitement of being asked for absolutely anyone has evaporated, and I now react with "Hang on. You're charging X amount for each ticket, I'm helping your team learn in 45 minutes something that took me years to figure out, and I'm supposed to be happy with my BFH [Nicked from Bullseye, lol = Bus Fare Home]".

Maybe its a combination of the British cultural squeamish to address money-talk, plus the wider denigration of The Arts that trickles down from government that anything Arts-adjacent is "not a proper career", and the annoyingly stubborn belief that it is reasonable for creative labour to be given away for free (compare fashion/music/publishing/any other type of creative internship), and the social immobility that engenders.

Your one new talk per year approach was really encouraging to read. I have settled on a similar approach more by accident than intention, because of my preference to really practice delivery, refine, practice again, and so on.

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Love your BFH. Not heard that before! I think you’re right about there being many contributing factors. I do hope if more people speak about it things will start to change.

The one talk a year thing really helped me refine my delivery. It’s a great approach.

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